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I don't know if you've all seen "the Dog Whisperer" on Nat'l Geographic TV. This guy is getting a lot of popularity, just wrote a book, and really emphasizes the importance of being pack leader.
Just today I noticed our Tosca giving back-talk when she wants to get her way. I've towered over her and glared at her, direct and unwavering, just as a dominant adult wolf would. She doesn't respond instantly, but in a very brief time she's trying to get back in my good graces.
As for biting, I think you're doing the right thing but you need to do more. I put my finger in the dog's mouth and pinch down, saying "No Bite." We've also been told to squeal and jump back, withdrawing attention and playtime. For nipping your husband's nose, I'd do a stern shake by the scruff. You can also grab the loose skin on each side of the dog's face and shake back and forth. Not rough, not causing real pain, but saying that he's definitely in trouble.
I'm not sure how long to wait before "making up." Just as parents have to discipline and then show kids they're loved, we need to do that with dogs. It's important, though, because you are the only people who can keep your dog from becoming a bully. If you're lucky, he'll live 15 years, and you want a loving dog who is welcome wherever he goes. I keep reminding myself of that when I feel as if I'm scolding our pups all the time. We want them to be gentle and trustworthy, so we have to be firm before they get out of hand. That doesn't mean they can't play like holy terrors and go crazy, but they must also know when to settle down and behave.
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