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How to decide who stays and who goes
How do people with multiable dogs decide who they keep and who they place if the time comes that there's no other options?
I have 8 dogs down from 10. I have placed two of my rescue/foster dogs. The other 8 I have had for anywhere from 9yrs. to 3 months.
My 4 oldest are rescues and were not able to be placed for many reasons.
I also have 4 corgis all rescues. My 1st is Boomer he is almost 3yrs. old and I have had him since I rescued him at 12 weeks. I have his little brother Moose same mom differnt dad he's 1 and 1/2 and I had him since 10 weeks old, he has had lots of ortho problems and has had a number of surgerie to correct the issues but still has very bad front legs. I also have there mom she 8yrs. old and I had her 6 months. She has a number of issues as well but mostly ortho no temperment issues. She's a lover although shy with men. My newest rescue corgi is Jake and he is about 1 and 1/2 and I think he's been here almost 3 months. He is a wonderful little guy but stubburn and was neglected and abused before he came and is coming out of his shell and becoming a wonderful loving young man.
I am in a place that I can not keep everyone with me. I have fallen on very hard times and am lossing my home/farm. My moms local dog ordinences say 3 dogs. I have to move back in with her. I have talked her into letting me have 4 dogs. She isn't happy about this but too bad. I have no other family or friends to help me out(I have a friend who offered to take one or two dogs but as much as I love him as a friend I wouldn't let him watch a goldfish). All my dogs are house dogs. I could not afford to kennel/board them and I am not sure long term fostering (if I could find it) in another home would be fair. I have no set time I could take them back. I can't ask someone to watch them for ?? amount of time can I?
I have to decide who to let go and who to keep. I would rather cut off my arm. I love all my dogs and all hold a special place in my heart for many reasons even the newest Jake. I have stayed in a abusive relastionship for years to keep my dogs together and with me. But I can't stay any longer.
How do people decide???
Sue
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