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Good suggestions already. As far as the NILF, not that puppy might necessarily need it at this point, it might help noonedoes better define their role as leader. In this case identifying what the human side might be doing to set up situations (and hey, we all are and have been guilty of this) NILF might prove beneficial from that standpoint. A lot of validity in what MattC said; "We (my wife and I) were told by the breeder that we should roll our puppy on his back everyday so he knows his role in the family." I'd go further to say that it is more than just knowing his role in the family, but just making him all around easier to handle whether at a groomer's or the vet's office or at home. And rolling doesn't have to be or mean the old fashioned "alpha roll" or picking them up by the scruff of the neck. Pick him up and cradle him on his back in your arm like a baby - give tummy tickles, scratch his head - make it a very happy positive position to be in. Same thing when playing on the floor, roll him over and give tummy rubs - his position/role message comes through, but in a very positive connotation.
Trading, take-it/leave-it game, hand feeding - all excellent ways to teach him - you control the resources, but not in a harsh way.
I would also recommend speaking with the breeder for tips and pointers. I think Cindy is right too when she said he's got your number and seeing how far he can go to set the limits; something you need to take control of now - not a shot for him to call, as well as there being a developmental period stage going on.
Puppy classes will help both of you to get back on a solid track.
Debbie
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