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Michael wrote:
"That young Sadie is frightened of people could be derived from her previous experiences with them. Who knows what terrible things had occurred before you came on the scene."
That might be it, or it could be genetic based - nature. From my experience with rescue, assuming terrible things had happened in her former life is not a leap that should be made, unless things are known as fact.
And suggested:
>Youi need to get as many people as possible to approach Sadie and say >nice words and gestures to her and extend hands of friendship (not >collectively but singlely for a start). Deliberately take her to visit your >friends.
I would watch the socialization with people just now, too much over stimulation could only make things worse. A recent brag on another list was from a Cardigan owner who's shy Cardigan boy had after two years decided he would make an appearance and say hello to a group of friends who visited the home regularly. This is a Cardigan of known background, responsibly bred and raised - this is just the way he is. Ones like this take, first acceptance they are likely never going to be social butterflies; time, patience and dedication can bring them a long way though. Often it is better to have people ignore her and while you are engaged in conversation with them, her natural curiosity will get the better of her and she'll approach. Arm friends with yummy treats and let her take one from their hand when she does approach. Now that she enjoys leaping onto picnic tables, that would be another good opportunity to have people give her a treat. When Sadie does something "brave and outgoing" heap on lots and lots of praise. You may also be interested in joining the Shy K-9's list <http://groups.yahoo.com/group/shy-k9s>
Debbie
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