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Originally Posted by jakort1
Maybe I'm a bit over the edge on giving a pet to my children, but, as I told my son when he asked me to get him a dog...he can choose the dog (breed, etc.) when he's willing to take on the lions share of the commitment, I'd even pay the bills and purchase price. Until then I choose. I had to explain to him why our current Cardigan follows me around and not him (or his sister, or my wife) it's because I take care of him consistently.
I am trying to give more responsibility to my kids, walks, playing, feeding so they understand some of what it takes. I do feel that my Cardi is probably one of the more small kid friendly dogs in the neighborhood since I encourage interaction between the dog and my children.
John
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I think you're right on target. I have no children, but when I was growing up my dad had 3 cats (because I was allergic to dogs as a young child), then we had a dog when I was in high school (and I had pretty much outgrown most childhood allergies). Even though the animals were called "family" pets, we all knew each animal was really my father's pet which we were allowed to pet and play with when we wanted.
Dad and I were the two animal lovers in the family. I never had to ask if he would get "me" a pet. He got pets because he wanted a pet and he provided the primary care for them. I helped with feeding, grooming and went along on vet visits because I wanted to, but I don't remember him ever asking for help. Your kids will learn by watching you how to care for pets. I'd say when they have their own money, they can pick "their" pet. You're very generous to offer the pay the price and bills.
I feel very blessed to have had animals around my whole life, and can't imagine how some people live without them.