Very Sad Day

[Checkers]

I think all of you have Cheyenne's best interest at heart and I could never fault anyone for that. I am also aware that I am the one in the situation, I am the one that knows Cheyenne's personality... and what she is, or is not, capable of adjusting to. Unfortunately I don't think this is something that will work itself out. She isn't a mean dog... or a bad dog.... in all honesty she was treating him as a momma dog would treat her pup. He got in her space when she did not want him there and she is trying (in her mind) to teach him boundaries. Sadly, her teaching methods are too hazardous for a human pup... but she doesn't know or understand that, and I see no way to bridge that gap. I don't have any family members at this time that are capable of taking her in....

If any of you in the States know anyone that you think would be a good fit for her please let me know.. my step-father is a truck driver and we could probably work out transport for her through him to just about anywhere.

Sincerely though... I know all of your suggestions are meant to be helpful and I keep that in mind when reading them so as not to take anything personally.

-Cheryl

[darci]

Good Luck Cheryl.
My thoughts are with you.

[Jane Austen]

I sent Cheryl a personal note and recieved a nice reply. I will repeat that I know there is a home waiting for Cheyenne. Please everyone, try to think of someone who can give Cheyenne the loving home she deserves.

[Checkers]

I just realized I don't have any pictures of Cheyenne on here. She really is a beautiful dog and in great health overall. She does have a little trouble with her back going out on occasion, but I keep her on supplements that help... and we have pain meds for the rare occasion that she throws it out (about three times a year, affects her for a couple of days to a week max). Anyhow... here are a few pictures of her. The optimal home for her would only have people ages 10 and up (she does great with my step-daughter who is 11 this year). She is a quiet dog... needs only one or two 30 min walks a day to be perfectly happy. She is very well trained both on and off leash, but I would not recommend her go to a home with other dogs or young children... as you guys could probably figure out. However, (and I can't explain this) she has done fine with all of the cats she has been around, go figure. Anyhow... please just keep your eyes open and if you know a person or family that fits this bill please let me know. Thank you.

-Cheryl

[tandemgal]

Cheryl,

Cheyenne is a lovely girl and I know you will find a good home for her.

Isn't it amazing to see you son crawling! They grow so fast and are learning every day! My baby grand-niece Amber is 9 mts and trying her best to walk around the coffee table and catch her older brother. She is so tiny - just now getting into 6 mth sizes and oh did I mention she is our doll baby?

[Chip's Mom]

Cheryl:

She is a beautiful dog and I am sure you will find the perfect home for her. My thoughts are with you

[Fluffypants]

What an awful decision to have to make Cheryl. You must be heartbroken. But you will do everything in your power to find Cheyenne a good home, and that is the best thing you can do for her and for your son. My thoughts are with you.

[Shelly]

Cheryl, such a hard decision. I'm sad for you but your child any any other children that could come around would come first. I'm sure if you find some kind of rescue group and tell them of the dogs history they'll make sure to place the dog with the correct person. Problem is, not many would want an 11 year old. When I rescued my first corgi she was 8 and they practically begged me to take her because older dogs are hard to place, and she was/is the perfect dog. The dog will find another good home. Who knows, maybe someone out in the country with horses (who doesn't have young children running around) would want the dog where it would come in contact with fewer people. You're in my thoughts. ~Shelly

[Checkers]

Oh, keep your fingers crossed please! I just got a call from a woman who is looking for an older, calm dog for her parents. So far it sounds perfect.... just praying she decides to give Cheyenne a chance and come see her in person! It's the only inquirery I have had all week... even the local rescues won't call me back! I hope this is as great as it sounds like it could be and that she can get a home that loves her like we do for the rest of her years. I'll keep you all informed.

-Cheryl

[Fluffypants]

~~ Fingers and paws are crossed ~~

[corgimom]

Same here Cheryl; keeping my fingers crossed that this will work for Cheyenne.

[Chip's Mom]

Me too Cheryl. Hope this works out for you. Keep us posted.

[Scotchyroo]

I totally sympathize with your problem. I had the same problem when my son was born with my older female, Happily, some family took her for about six monthes while he was really awkward and then she was able to come home. Once he was a little bigger we were able to work with boy and corgi to make them safe and happy together (with the help of a trainer). Maybe you can get foster care and not give up your beloved dog forever, but if you do.... I feel certain you can find a good home for your old friend. There is always a way for a beloved animal companion. So take heart.

[Corgis'R4me]

Originally Posted by Hayashi_eri

I feel sad for Cheyenne, I must admit I do not agree to sending her away for your child...there must be something you can work out on?...I would be torn apart if I have to send Buta away, I just can't do it...wil prob buy a playpen for Buta & divide the time between letting my child or Buta spent time with me separately.

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*~* Our pets are kinda like our children !

Could you ever imagine...GIVING YOUR CHILD AWAY ??

Sorry to put it like that but...I love Midnight & Sunshine just as much as Kyle & Sara !! But, if I ever had to make a choice like that...what would I DO ?? I have no idea...honestly !!

However, we are only on the outside looking in ! the window...may be blurry to our eyes. we may see....only what we WANT to see. We are not living in your home.....

I feel for you. TOUGH decision.

*~* Nikki

[sweetlychee]

Cheryl:

I am going to ask you to think this carefully through. I actually were asked this question last night by my fiance. If Milo were to ever behave mean or hurtful to our future kids, what could we do or woudl do? I say we would separate them and slowly integrate them both together. I really hope Milo would not be biting/scratching my future kids. We also considered giving Milo to his "grandparents" for a few months if anything. We will NEVER give Milo away. He's the first "child" to me in my feelings.

I really hope you can think of a way to separate them for now. Can you put Cheyenne in another gated area? Or, have Cheyenne go to a relative for now?

I think a dog at that age has such a harder time to adjust. Also, if you do find them a home it's always going to be in the back of your head if Cheyenne is doing fine. I cannot say that another home will not abuse or neglect your beloved dog.

I hope whatever decision you make, you will be happy and lots of luck to Cheyenne and your toddler.